Sensory issues can manifest themselves as either sensory-seeking or sensory-avoiding behaviors. For instance, toe-walking is common amongst autistic children. This behavior could be considered sensory-seeking, e.g.: the child seeks additional input into the balls of their feet, or sensory-avoiding, e.g.: the child is sensitive to the feel of the various surfaces and avoids them by having as much of their foot as possible off of the floor.
My daughter has mostly outgrown her sensory-avoiding behaviors, which in the past included aversions to many sounds, such as the cries of other children or vacuum cleaners. But her sensory-seeking behaviors are more compulsive than ever. She seeks out sensory stimulation of all kinds. Visually, she loves to look at flashing, spinning baby toys, full moons, running water, and a host of other sights that are stimulating to her. Smell-wise, like many kids with autism, she unfortunately seeks out some less than pleasant odors, and will run her fingers between her toes or jam them under my arms. As far as sounds go, she will as me to repeat certain words or phrases over and over again. And she still loves the deep pressure of hugging, rough-housing, and squishing herself under our sofa cushions.
And so I’ve composed a little ode to all of my daughter’s “favorite things” to the melody of the famous song from The Sound of Music. I assume that everyone knows the tune so feel free to sing out loud…uh one and uh two and uh…
Numbers and letters and mall escalators
Pushing the buttons on the store’s elevator
Fountains and sprinklers and toilets flushing
These are a few of my favorite things
Gluten-full food that I’m not s’posed to eat
Smells that are nasty like poop, pits, and feet
Toys that are beeping, flashing, or spinning
These are a few of my favorite things
When the light’s bright
When my ears ring
When I’m feeling sad
I simply remember my favorite things
And then I don’t feel so bad
Dora and Wiggles and Baby Einstein
Watching those shows til Mom loses her mind
Rocking and flapping and elbow pumping
These are a few of my favorite things
Bright shiny full moons and microwave ovens
Fridge doors and sewers and oak-tree-trunk-lovin’
Canadian geese and their stinky droppings
These are a few of my favorite things
When the light’s bright
When my ears ring
When I’m feeling sad
I simply remember my favorite things
And then I don’t feel soooooooo bad!







Comments
Brian
Great, now this song is in my head. Time to listen to some Bob Marley
Lynn
You’re welcome.
Karla
Love it! My son’s would have Mario and Luigi in it. : )
Lynn
I await a version tailored to your son!
mama2boys
I love this!!!! Brought a smile to my face and if we don’t smile at our kid’s “quirks” I think we would all go mad!
Lynn
I could not agree more…especially when there is so much funny there!
Tammy
OMG this is so awesome!! Love love love it!
Lynn
Thanks Tammy!
kim
Lynn, you are one of my favorite things!
Lynn
Awwwww…thanks for making the trip over here Kim!
Aimee
Love this! Have you thought about getting her little bears scratch n sniff “poop, pits and feet” addition?
I love Audrey.
Lynn
Does that exist? I want that!
Mavis
To Cute! Thanks for sharing a smile full of love.
Lynn
Thanks Mavis!
Cheryl D.
LMAO! That really made me laugh like I haven’t laughed in awhile!
Lynn
Happy to serve…thanks for coming by over here Cheryl!
Patty
This is FANTASTIC!!!!
Lynn
Thanks so much Patty!
Meredith
I could say I am getting addicted to your posts but that wouldn’t be quite true, because every one is as good as the first one. Nice huh…made a drug analogy out of your blog. I am one classy wench.
Lynn
HAHA…I am just classy enough to be completely flattered by that analogy! Thanks Meredith!
Lizbeth
I love it!!! Of course I have the tune stuck in my head now but I have you’re lyrics and it’s waaaay better!
Lynn
Sing it sister!
Big Daddy
It’s official. I now have two songs permanently stuck in my head. It’s a Small World and now this.
Lynn
Now I feel that you have challenged me to write alternate lyrics to “It’s a Small World”. I’m on it.
popsie112
Brilliant, I loved it!
Lynn
Glad you enjoyed it!
Melissa
LOVE it! Also, didn’t realize that my sons new obsession with “stinky” things was part of his sensory seeking. We’ve only just begun to phase out of alot of the sensory avoidance issues and into the seeking of things previously avoided!
http://pathsfrompookssoul.blogspot.com/
Lynn
That’s interesting. My daughter has gotten over much of her sensory avoidance, but not to the point that she’s actually seeking those same things.
Jennie B
Awesome as always. Moe’s latest is licking everything. It’s no wonder he’s sick all the time.
Lynn
I hear ya…hopefully it will result in a kick-ass immune system eventually…?
Jean@MommyToTwoBoys
It is so good to know that my son isn’t the only one rubbing his feet, pits, and “other” areas and smelling them. However, he also then asks me to smell his hand. Please tell me I’m not alone there…
Lynn
Uhhhhh…no? So far Audrey just smells her own hand, but thanks for letting me know what I might be in for.
Martianne
Just catching up on reading here and I must say I really LOVE your song!
Lynn
Thanks Martianne!
Renee Storm
Great little ditty!Maybe my son could sing it in his Teredactyl voice,or Tyrannusaurus voice,or his Mickey Pikey Ikey voice…..Or whatever imaginary friend is visiting at the time!
Lynn
I would love to hear that!
Jakesmom
So funny….my sons version would have to include lawn mowers trash cans and garbage trucks . A few of his favorite things!
April Gear
I could borrow some of those lines for my son. He’s obsessed with touching and smelling armpits and stinky feet. He really grosses me out.
april
Lynn
I’m with you April. So gross. I have to hope that it’s a phase that she will get over…because the smells aren’t going to get any better once she reaches puberty.
Jenny Duffy
Thanks for the posting & great idea. For WAD, I posted to fb My Son’s Favorite Things. Awesome idea!! :0)
Lynn
Thanks Jenny! They definitely know what they like!
Susan
Fabulous song!! I am so relieved to know that someone else’s child likes to smell odd things, too. My son will come up to me and stuff his face in my armpit. It always makes me feel weird. To quote some of the song’s lyrics, “Now I don’t feel so bad!”
Lynn
HA! You are definitely not alone Susan!
Shelley
Brilliant!! I only need to change half a dozen things to make it perfect for my child. Or maybe, they are obsessions that are yet to come….
Lynn
I think everyone could write their own version that is specific to their own child…then we might know more about what we’re all in for
Cheryl
I was here, clicking away and happened to click on this post. Hilarious!! I actually wrote my own version of the 12 days of Christmas, CP style and thought you might laugh at that too.
Thanks for the giggle!!
http://www.5minutesforspecialneeds.com/6788/12-days-of-christmas/