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Some Day

November 17, 2012 by in ADHD, Anxiety, Behavior, Parenting, SPD, Therapy with 0 Comments

Our four kids have been in therapy for years and years. So very many days in the past 10 years of pediatric therapies, I have wondered when will all this work pay off? When will things get better, or even just a little bit easier? When will we be able to do things normal families do without it being a total disaster? When will the rages stop? When will we be able to wear socks and brush teeth without having a meltdown? When will we be able to handle transitions better? When will our Some Day come?

The answer is: Here and there, there are bits of progress all around our family if we pay attention.Ella has been in PT for several months and can now run like a typically developing toddler. Her torso isn’t frozen anymore and her arms can swing like they’re supposed to. She can twist and twirl and turn like the little ballerina she believes she is. Her physical therapist taught her how to push a swing. That’s something I never thought to teach her, and it involves a lot of sequencing, planning, and skill. You have to lean back on one leg, with the other leg in front, push the swing with your arms and let go with your hands while moving your torso forwards, then make sure you’re far enough back so that you don’t get knocked over when the swing makes its way back to you…that’s a lot for a toddler! Ella’s PT said she could tell it was something Ella wanted to learn, because she wanted to push a huge teddy bear in the PT swing, so she taught Ella. Hm! Wish I had thought of that. That’s why I pay the PT the big bucks I guess. …continue reading

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One shoe on, One shoe off…

November 14, 2012 by in Behavior, Parenting, SPD with 10 Comments

Here’s the anatomy of a moderate Rage at our house. Here’s the reason we usually don’t volunteer for anything, have friends over, or make commitments.Sunday morning. My sweet son rolls out of bed, sweaty, because he has major sensory challenges and sleeps covered in fleecy pj’s from head to toe and with three layers of blankets on top of him. He stumbles into the bathroom with another set of fleecy pj’s. I tell him we have to get ready for church- why doesn’t he put on his clothes instead of putting on more pj’s, since he’ll have to change soon anyway? He gets grumpy and refuses to listen to me. Sweaty fleecy pj’s are replaced by clean ones.

My son comes downstairs for breakfast. He says nothing sounds good to eat. We finally agree on something, but he refuses to eat at the table. He is comfy laying on the couch so we agree he can eat there. Meanwhile, my hubby and I are trying frantically to get everyone else ready to go to church. We have one sick kid, two who are excited to get ready for the day, and one more who I can tell is going to have a tough morning.

Five out of six of us are ready for church. We have to leave in 15 minutes so my hubby and I can teach Sunday School. My sweet, grumpy, pj’ed son refuses to get off the couch, despite my constant (yet patient) requests for him to get moving, get dressed, take his medicine, brush his teeth, come on! We have to teach, let’s go! He says he has it “under control.”

Apparently his idea of control, and mine, are completely different. …continue reading


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Socks

August 17, 2012 in SPD with 6 Comments

One day near the end of last school year, the school nurse called. This is a typical occurrence, so I didn’t freak out. She always has at least one of our boys in her office.

Mama Bear & the Dentist Chair

August 12, 2012 in Parenting, Self Care, SPD, SPD Awareness with 6 Comments

Today all four kids had to make their biannual pilgrimage to see their pediatric dentist. Our dentist is absolutely wonderful. She has a team who dress in bright, fun scrubs. The kids get loads of

The Hamster Debacle

I have had a bad week. It’s one of those weeks that just gets you down, in a rut, and I can’t shake it off like I normally can. The kids have been super special-needy

The Beginning

July 25, 2012 in ADHD, Anxiety, Early Intervention, Humor, SPD with 10 Comments

Here I go… I’ve been wanting to do this for a long time. However, I’m about as technically savvy as our hamster, so it’s a pretty daunting task to set up a blog! We have

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