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Pudding and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day

Yesterday Pudding asked me to read her Alexander and the the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day.  Pudding likes this book, but it goes in phases for her, and she hasn’t been interested in reading it for several months.  I wondered if there was a reason for her choice….

I went to bed with Daddy in my room and then I woke up and Daddy wasn’t there, and I was scared.  I went to Mummy and Daddy’s room, and they were asleep, so I had to wake them up to get in their bed. Daddy had to get out.  Even though it hadn’t started yet, I could see it was going to be a Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day.

When I woke up it was still dark and there were no birds singing yet, so I had to make noise instead.  Mummy is grumpy, so I keep talking and turning until she cheers up.  Eventually I hear Daddy get up, so I decide it is time to go downstairs.

Daddy wants me to do my therapeutic listening program, but I don’t want to.  I don’t like wearing the head phones, and I don’t want to listen to that music.  I pull the cord out of the CD player and Daddy makes me do it again from the beginning.  I get my pink yoghurt on my Hello Kitty nightgown and I start to cry.  It isn’t even 7 O’Clock, and already it is a Terrible Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day.

I think next time I’ll move to Australia. …continue reading

Ah, Nature…

April 28, 2012 by in ADHD, Behavior, SPD, Vacation with 3 Comments

This weekend, we were able to get away with the kids on a short trip. Daddy was working an hour south of our house, so we were going to join him for a couple days. We started out Friday by driving to that city and finding the beginning of a long trail to hike. The trail started in the woods; went up and down hills, over tree limbs, past a small creek, over bridges, and on and on and on. With one on my back we got started, hiking out on the trail. The kids were in heaven. We found trees cut down by beavers, trees knocked over by rushing water, hickory nuts, canoe trees, butterflies, caterpillars, and every once in awhile, a little post, telling them something about the area. The kids stopped at every single post, reading the information, looking around, taking it all in, and learning without my doing a thing. We hiked out at least a mile, turned around and hiked back about 1/4 to meet Daddy, turned back around and kept going because they had so much to show him, went even further, maybe another 1/2 mile, and were very upset when we told them it was time to turn around. They hiked the whole way back again without complaint. Talked all the way to the hotel about the things they had seen, and were in a great mood.

When we got into the hotel, they went in calmly, sat and watched a show quietly while we got settled, then easily got into swimsuits to go the pool and had plenty of patience as we went. We spent a great couple hours swimming in the pool, went out to dinner, relaxed with a movie and went to sleep (granted, the sleeping arrangements caused an argument, but that was the only fuss all night).

In the morning we had a nice breakfast in the hotel, another couple hours swimming, and then packed it up. We had a delicious lunch, which we got to eat outdoors; another great idea. I honestly worried that they would be more hyper and have less sit outside on the patio, but they really did better than usual! Then it was time to do some more hiking. Since we were on the other end of the trail we had started the day before, we decided to do some hiking on a different section. This time, we were in the city, started by walking over a large, concrete pedestrian bridge, down some stairs next to a train station, and hiked a paved path that went next to some ball fields before heading down next to the river. …continue reading

Lessons in Water Fountains

April 13, 2012 in ADHD, Behavior, Humor with 2 Comments

Last month a friend of mine’s daughter came to stay with me for about ten days.  She was dropped off by her mom’s friend late on a Tuesday night.  My oldest son Gabriel was already

“All Kids Do That” – Safety

April 11, 2012 in ADHD, Autism, Behavior with 14 Comments

As parents of children with special needs, we have all heard the phrase, “all kids do that”, from well-meaning family members, friends, and parents of typical children.  Whether it’s said in reference to potty training,

SPD DIY: Stained Glass Tissue Suncatchers

March 2, 2012 in ADHD, Avoiders, DIY, SPD with 1 Comment

Many parents of children with tactile sensitivities know that this branch of SPD often goes hand-in-hand with a fine motor delay (yes, the pun was intended ). Because children with tactile sensitivities can be extremely adverse to new touch

Oh, So That Is Stimming… Now What?

February 25, 2012 in ADHD, Autism, Behavior, SPD with 15 Comments

Even though I have shared only mere snippets of my son’s SPD journey here and on our family blog Training Happy Hearts, I bet it is evident to anyone who has read my posts that

Who Is Afraid of Life…..Them or Me????

February 24, 2012 in ADHD, Autism, IEP, Parenting, School, Siblings with 12 Comments

One of the things people know (or think they know) about me is that I can be fearless. From the moment we learned Ballerina and Music Man had Autism back in 2009, I still treated

Teaching a Sensory Swimmer

February 9, 2012 in ADHD, Autism, Seekers, SPD, Summer, Vacation with 4 Comments

My daughter, with her fizzy neurological cocktail of Asperger’s, ADHD, and Developmental Coordination Disorder has very recently started to swim. It is quite remarkable to me that in spite of all her challenges, she has

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