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Meltdowns at School and Home……

My youngest Monkey was recently diagnosed with SPD (within the last month).  His private schooled offered to all new parents the opportunity to have their child assessed by an OT for any reason.  At the time I was unaware of SPD and I had chosen picky eater.  (Monkey Shine is actually a restrictive eater.  I consider it a good day if I can get protein in the child.  He has a severe dairy allergy which creates limits as well.  His foods consist of McD Chicken nuggets, crackers, pretzels, chips and elbow macaroni.  I supply him with food enzymes, probiotics and vitamins.  He use to drink soy on a continual basis but refuses any non-dairy milk now.  He sticks with water.)  After his assessment the OT contacted me and let me know that he has SPD.  The OT visits him once per week at his school to work with him. …continue reading

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Special Interests

November 21, 2012 by in Anxiety, Autism, Parenting, Seekers, SPD with 5 Comments

Tate’s got some special interests. Or, well, fixations, really. One of his main “interests” is to watch things spin. In fact, he often watches spinning objects as a form of regulation. The spinning of a fan, or a stick, or a toy, or a wheel helps him calm down. I think some of it is sensory…and some of it is a true, unadulterated fixation on the “how” behind the action. How does it do that?! As Tate gets absorbed in his fixation, he calms down. He stops having a “flight or fight” reaction to the stimuli around him. His body loosens, relaxes. He doesn’t need to bang or crash into walls, tables, or climb on top of me or Hubz because he is regulating himself again.

After a while of staring into the fan, Tate can carry on a conversation. He often is able to produce spontaneous speech. He’ll ask a question. Or make a statement–all without prompting. To a lesser extent, we see regulation and improved communication when he is able to spin a toy or a stick in his hand. By stick, I mean any object that is straight. Sticks include, but are not limited to actual tree branches, markers, pencils, pens, straws, pinwheel handles, glowsticks, wands, scepters, hangers, Swiffer stick, etc. One time he used the leg from one of Jake’s action figures as a “stick”. If he’s feeling a need to stim, he will make it work. …continue reading


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Nothing to Fear but Fear itself

November 20, 2012 in Anxiety, SPD with 1 Comment

This weekend, we had a wedding in Indianapolis, which is about 2 and a half hours from where we live. The four of us, me, hubby, Darling and Bud, were going to travel together and

Some Day

November 17, 2012 in ADHD, Anxiety, Behavior, Parenting, SPD, Therapy with 0 Comments

Our four kids have been in therapy for years and years. So very many days in the past 10 years of pediatric therapies, I have wondered when will all this work pay off? When will

Letters to Kindergarten: Who are You?

November 13, 2012 in Anxiety, Avoiders, School, SPD with 3 Comments

When I let myself think about O starting kindergarten, I am terrified. It overwhelms me to think of all the hurdles he will encounter. If it were any other child, one of my students instead of my

Desperately Seeking Suggestions

November 5, 2012 in Advice, Anxiety, SPD with 7 Comments

I am new to blogging. The series of pieces I wrote on here are my first and only experience dipping my toe in the blogging pool. I know we share our experiences and offer support,

Hard

November 1, 2012 in Anxiety, Autism, Behavior, Parenting, SPD, Support with 7 Comments

Today is Halloween.  My very own nightmare starts at 6AM.  We wake up to tackle this not so SPD friendly “holiday” with a smile and hopeful optimism but that quickly fades.  My DD is going

Stamina- A Special Needs Mom’s Perspective

October 25, 2012 in ADHD, Anxiety, Parenting, SPD with 8 Comments

Stamina: the Merriam Webster online dictionary defines the word as STAYING POWER, ENDURANCE. Yup. I’d agree. Being able to endure and keep on, even when you’re tired down to your bones. Keep trying, keep looking,

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