Little D started at the developmental preschool today. It’s literally the only place that he can get OT, Speech or developmental services in our small town. He will be there from 8 to 3pm every weekday, unless there’s a holiday. I’m really concerned about it.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s a really great opportunity for him to advance in the areas of development where he has been struggling, particularly fine motor, expressive language and gross motor. Socially he has a real opportunity to learn to get along and play with other kids, to learn to share and to use his empathy skills. He has some real benefits that will come as he spends time there.

The problem is, as much as I have been pulling my hair out with him at home, I really really, REALLY miss him. His birthday was the 9th and I’m realizing that he won’t be this cute, affectionate (on his own terms), amazing little boy forever. …continue reading

With Little D swiftly approaching his 3rd birthday, the question is on my mind. It could be his recent change in behavior – the increase in epic meltdowns, the major increase in aggressive behavior and self-abuse – or it could just be his SPD rearing its head as he is transitioning into a new stage of his young life.

It seems like every time I turn around, I’m asking myself this question again and again. Is this an indication that he’s not just SPD? Is he on the Spectrum too?

This question is a loaded one. There are so many things that it could (or couldn’t) mean. If he is ASD then it could work to his (and our) advantage because he might get the help he needs at school in the future. ASD seems to have that affect on the people from IDEA. …continue reading