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Our Sensational Sandy Holiday

Having scored two weeks off work over Easter this year, my husband and I decided to take our two boys 3 and 5 on a ten day holiday to Kings Beach, Caloundra. A lovely friend had put us on to a fantastic apartment block right on the water…we could walk to the beach, the park, restaurants, shops….awesome location.

 

Both the boys were very excited about going to our Holiday House. Our older son with SPD has a fantastic memory, and as we have taken him on similar holidays he talked non stop the whole couple of hours drive there…remember this, remember that….

We were blessed with perfect weather the whole time. After a not so hot and quite wet summer, we were being treated with heavenly Autumn weather! Unfortunately holidays also spell changes to routine, new sensations, strange places.

Our first trip to the beach – all of a minutes walk away – started off well enough. As soon as we hit the sand off came his thongs, he didn’t like the sensation of the sand rubbing between his feet and the rubber. No problem though, walking on the sand in bare feet suited him fine. Both he and his little brother love the water, and “wave jumping” became our new sport. All went well until A’s long board shorts started to irritate his legs, “my legs are itching!” he was yelling out in distress. Trying to placate him I said “it’s ok, its just the sand and the water, your legs are okay”. He got more and more upset, to the point where I asked him if he wanted to get out….”NOOOOO….I’m still wave jumping!” …continue reading

Make It Count

March 3, 2012 by in Inspiration, Parenting, Siblings with 4 Comments

Each day we have a new opportunity to relate to our kids. To find connection. That’s the best part about waking up in the morning. No matter how bad the day before was, we always get to start again. That is such a gift. These are the things I think about when I open my eyes to see my baby staring back at me in the morning. These are the things I ask the Universe for before I get out of bed….

Today is a new day. Yesterday has been written and sealed into the growing brains and physical memory of my kids. Please help me remember today to be conscious and careful and deliberate about what I am writing in there.

Help me to not be selfish.

Keep my hands gentle and my words sincere.

I will graciously accept any and all magic healing powers for all injuries that will occur on this day. …continue reading

Who Is Afraid of Life…..Them or Me????

February 24, 2012 in ADHD, Autism, IEP, Parenting, School, Siblings with 12 Comments

One of the things people know (or think they know) about me is that I can be fearless. From the moment we learned Ballerina and Music Man had Autism back in 2009, I still treated

Balancing Act

January 19, 2012 in Parenting, Siblings, SPD with 5 Comments

We have five children:  three girls who are homeschooled and two boys who are currently too young for school. Our oldest boy has SPD. Since being diagnosed late last year and starting the sensory diet given to us by

The Death of Santa

December 29, 2011 in Autism, Holiday, Siblings with 6 Comments

This year may be the end of an era for Ewan.  His logical, Vulcan brain has decided to rebel against the magical notion of Santa Claus.  It’s possible that the word on the 3rd grade

fair

December 5, 2011 in Anxiety, Autism, Behavior, Parenting, Siblings, SPD with 16 Comments

Sometimes, it’s just hard. When I can’t fix it. When my baby hurts. When the world is too bright, too loud, too big, too scary – just too MUCH. I sit on the floor outside

What SPD Means to Us.

October 24, 2011 in Parenting, Siblings, SPD, SPD Awareness with 6 Comments

SPD. Sensory Processing Disorder. It is only a piece of Firefly’s puzzle, but it is the largest piece, and the piece that makes all of the others harder to fit. Most of her other “issues”

When Two Turns Three

I was at the park the other day. During school hours, so it was mostly small kids. Watching Ollie carefully and methodically climb the stairs to the slide, a mom asked me the question that

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