Articles Tagged Self Care

If Only It Came Naturally…

Awareness.  We take it for granted, the things that our bodies sense and do for us seemingly automatically.  The earth shifts under your feet as the grade changes beneath you and instantly your body reacts.  You lean a certain way or adjust your gait to correct for the differences in the terrain.  You don’t need to see the terrain change; your body senses it.  You’re aware of it without the visual input and your body works to compensate for you.  It’s as if your body tells you, “Don’t worry your pretty little head over that – I’ve got it covered.”

Think of the other things your body does automatically based on the sensory input that it receives.  When you put a piece of food in your mouth, you don’t have to think about chewing – it just happens.  You also don’t have to think about swallowing; that just happens, too.  Your body senses that food, understands the way that it needs to be chewed, and sensing that food is at the proper chewed consistency, nerves relay that message to your brain which – in turn – triggers a swallow.

Really, if you think about it, if your brain didn’t run it’s autopilot “eating program” for you, you’d be unable to do just about anything but focus on the movement of your chewing.  You’d  have to think of when to swallow.  You surely wouldn’t be able to carry on a conversation with your family or watch a TV show.  You might even have difficulty sitting upright, as your focus remained on the food and your meal.  It’s this very reason why so many us have a tendency to “eat mindlessly”, because we literally don’t have to think about what we’re doing when we eat.

For my little boy, the process of eating is a whole other story. …continue reading

An Important Lesson We Need To Teach Our Children

We recently had our son’s IEP meeting. We are, from what I can tell from other stories I hear, very rare in our experiences. Our IEP meetings have always been friendly and upbeat. You can feel how much his teachers and therapists love him and only want to set him up for success. A story from his IEP got me to thinking. First… the story.

At our IEP meeting his teacher leaned over and said “OMG, I have to tell you this story about Dylan. Not only does he recognize his own sensory needs but can now spot them in the younger kids”. Dylan is in a self-contained classroom that runs Kindergarten through second grade. “Just the other day he said “Mrs. W. Pablo is driving me nuts! He needs my vest!” With that he went over to his compression vest, took it off the hook and put it on the younger boy who immediately settled down. I heard this story and was, as you can imagine, beaming with pride. Then I realized that it wasn’t something that just happened. It was years and years and years of work on my son’s part, with his OT, that brought him to this point. …continue reading

Potty Training

January 8, 2012 in Parenting, Potty Training, SPD with 21 Comments

We have been thinking about potty training for a long time now.  Kailey will be turning 4 in March and since she turned 3 we have thought about this step.  Since Kailey was a baby

Life Outside of the Bubble

December 9, 2011 in Holiday, Inspiration, Social, SPD with 26 Comments

This is the time of year when I start to lose it a little.  The holiday speed train from Halloween to Christmas is demanding for most families and rife with extra activity and extra stress. 

Respite Requirement

August 15, 2011 in Self Care with 7 Comments

I have been a special needs mom now for nearly 10 years. That sounds much more impressive than it is mostly because when my oldest was young, I didn’t believe I was a special needs

Marriage Advice Special Needs Moms Don’t Want to Hear

June 17, 2011 in Advice, Father's Day, Marriage, Self Care with 9 Comments

I thought in honor of Father’s Day, I would give all of the special needs fathers our there a gift.  I am giving their wives some advice they could NEVER get away with saying themselves – a

Escaping reality…

May 30, 2011 in Avoiders, Behavior, Victories with 3 Comments

This morning was the first time Becca didn’t make it to school. Unfortunately it is one of those times that comes every so often where the clothes she insists on wearing are wearable no more.

Tips for Making Morning Routine Easier

May 2, 2011 in ADHD, Advice, Behavior with 5 Comments

Max was adopted from Russia at 7 months. He was developmentally behind by 4 months and was not meeting milestones.  Lots of therapies later, Max still struggles with a few things. Don’t we all you

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